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What Is Success?



If you’re asking the question, “What is success?” you may already be in trouble.

Because that’s a question only you can answer for yourself, and only I can answer for myself.

And this answer is tricky or simple, depending on your perspective.

For example, success could mean moving up from sleeping on the street to sleeping in a beat up van. That’s definitely a nice upgrade considering the circumstances.

It could mean graduating college and moving up to build a billion dollar brand. I don’t need to convince anyone that the founder of a billion dollar empire is a business success.

Success could mean calling your dad who you haven’t talked to in years and mending a relationship. It could mean quitting the job that sucked your soul, even though you don’t know your next steps.

Or it could mean holding onto hope after your business goes bankrupt, and continuing to move forward as you go through one personal and career failure after another.

Success doesn’t always look like success, it’s deceptive at times.

Personally, I believe that success comes down to knowing what you want (Step 1), and then pursuing that at all costs (Step 2). If you do that, there’s no other option left but to win.

Success is all about moving forward and making progress.

And this progress isn’t always seen on the outside in terms of awards or appreciation. More often than not, the best feelings of success comes from the inside, where you’re proud of yourself for taking a chance and giving your best effort.

Success is when your actions align with your values and you’re living true to yourself. As William Shakespeare highlighted, “This above all; to thine own self be true.”

But for most people in America, success is a choice of three different realities—all with their perks and downsides.

Let’s look in-depth at these and then we’ll define your success.

Option 1: Success Is Freedom


Time spent working each week: 0 to 20 hours

Occupations: Blogger, freelancer, online business owner, part-time worker

Being free to do whatever you want, whenever you want, with no boss or authority figure in the way is the definition of success for millions of people in the US and across the world.

Waking up without an alarm clock is their dream.

These people come from all different backgrounds. They can be digital nomads and world travelers, or simply people who enjoy doing work around the house and answering to no one.

They can be the most or least adventurous soul, but their soul needs freedom to feel their best.

For example, it’s why The 4-Hour Workweek by Tim Ferriss is such a hit. Millions of people love the idea of spending the least amount of time working as possible (I mean only four hours a week is incredible), while still being able to pay for their bills and entertainment.

These people want just enough money to be free from financial worry, but they don’t have aspirations to be a billionaire or appear on Forbes Magazine richest list. And they’ll often cite the Wall Street Journal study showing $75,000 is the perfect income for maximum happiness to prove their reasoning.

But going back to our example, I could gather a large crowd who wouldn’t want this kind of success. They don’t think of success in terms of freedom away from the world’s demands.

And that’s why this question, “What is success?” is impossible to answer in one broad stroke. Another group views success as strictly achievement.

Option 2: Success Is Achievement


Time spent working each week: 80 to 100+ hours

Occupations: Business owner, lawyer, doctor, banker

Multi-million dollar checks and getting famous is the definition of success for many entrepreneurs, highly-educated professionals, athletes, and artists.

But what stacks up higher than any dollar amount or level of fame is their drive for achievement. No matter the field, they strive to outcompete the best of the best.

They’re not comfortable punting on achievement for something else like freedom. Because take away their competitive passion and they’re miserable, lost souls who don’t have anything better to do with their time.

That’s just how they’re wired, with a deep conviction to perform, so there’s not much changing their ways.

To reach their ambitions, the people who see success as achievement have to put in an enormous amount of work day after day. So it’s easy to see how they work 100 hours or more, every single week—it just comes with the territory.

For example, it seems it’s impossible to become a tech giant without constantly working to build and expand. This Entrepreneur magazine article discloses how hard the elite work to keep an edge on their competition.

The formula for their definition of success is work multiplied by more work, and little else to distract them from their cause. These guys and girls value achievement over freedom and work-life balance.

So good luck getting Elon Musk to work 40 hours and call it a week because he needs to watch TV and relax. Or getting him to put his business on hold to travel the world for 18 months.

And the third group is where you’ll find the majority of people, who aren’t interested in dedicating no time or all of their time to their work.

Option 3: Success Is Work-Life Balance


Time spent working each week: 35 to 55 hours

Occupations: Teacher, sales, accountant, engineer, IT worker, etc.

The work-life balance group doesn’t want to leave society to travel through jungles, beaches, and deserts like the freedom-focused group. But this group also doesn’t want to run the world from their skyscrapers in New York, London, and Hong Kong like the ambitious group.

Success to them means dabbling in a healthy dose of both work and play. Why choose between freedom and achievement when you can have a little of both?

Susan has the time of her life watching her kids grow up and having the extra time to coach all three of their soccer teams. To her, raising healthy and caring kids can’t be topped.

Harrison doesn’t want more responsibility at his day job, because that might cut into the time he gets to golf, go fishing, and watch football on the weekends. And he doesn’t want to do his hobbies full-time or they will lose their special feeling.

These people like their life in the middle, where they can work to get paid and support who they need to. But they fully realize that their health, friends, laughter, exercise, and memories are most important.

As you can see, success looks like three entirely different realities depending on who you are and what you value: freedom, achievement, or work-life balance.

The point here is that you can’t box success in and say it’s one way or else. People are unique and have different views of a successful life.

But what do you consider a success?

How To Be Successful


To recap, some people will happily save money and live like a bird so they can to retire at age 35 because they hate working. Free time to travel, enjoy their favorite hobby, or spend time with their children is their definition of success.

Other people look at work as their oxygen and would rather die than retire from their career at age 35. These people want to work until the day they die and have dreams of becoming an all-time great.

And the third group says, “I want a little bit of both work and play. Why do I have to choose? Moderation is the best solution for happiness.”

Now that you see the three different definitions of success, it’s time to stop focusing on other people and focus on yourself.

Step 1: Define Your Success

What do you want to chase the rest of your life?

Is it complete freedom from work? Is it to build an empire no matter what it takes? Or is it the 40 hour workweek with relaxed nights and weekends?

Maybe you lean all the way to freedom on the left, or all the way to ambition on the right, though most likely somewhere in the middle is your happy place and definition of success. Odds are it’s somewhere between the 20 and 60 hours of work.

But the point is that you need to discover what it is you exactly want. Don’t settle for something your parents, friends, or society tells you is the right path. That will always end up in disappointment, and often disaster.

Discover what success means for you.

And it’s perfectly fine if you’re not exactly sure what you want to do. If that’s the case, I recommend you date yourself for a bit until you find some areas you’re passionate about.

Read books to “live other people’s lives” and see if that interests you. Books are great ways to pick up information without risking much money, time, or energy into an unknown endeavor.

Travel to build up your self-awareness. Going outside your comfort zone is proven to get your brain off autopilot and into reflection mode.

Follow a curiosity and see how far it takes you. Maybe it takes you through your entire career. Or maybe three weeks in you realize that this isn’t your cup of tea. So you itched that curiosity and now you move onto another one.

Talk to people in different fields and get honest perspectives of their day-to-day work. Or shadow them at work for a clear view of the job responsibilities.

There are thousands of ways to find what you want to do. The key is to experiment and continue looking. Eventually you’ll find your idea of a successful life through a sheer numbers game of experimentation and reflection.

Step 2: Take Initiative

Once you know what you want and where you fall on the freedom and ambition scale, it’s time to completely own that.

Embody that into every decision and action you take from this moment on. Make it your life’s work to aim for that with every ounce of energy you have.

If you want freedom, look for ways to build passive income through investing, a side hustle, or work a ton of hours for the next 5-10 years so you never have to work again.

If you want incredible achievement, start working at least 80 hours a week and relaxing less. Cut out all television, leisure, and minutes of procrastination.

If you want work-life balance, take steps to have both job security and strong relationships outside of work. Ask your coworkers out to happy hour. Join a bowling league or softball team. Spread your time out loosely to all of your interests.

Taking initiative both speeds up the process of freedom, achievement, or work-life balance. And lets you enjoy the process because you’re actions have purpose behind them.

You’ll appreciate the daily battle of tearing away from where you are and making steps toward where you want to go, when you know you’re doing what’s going to make you happy.

And when you take initiative and never give up, you will look back on your life and know you lived a successful one with zero regrets. You won’t say, “I wish I did that,” or, “Why didn’t I work harder for what I wanted?”

Taking initiative to your end goal is what I call success!

And take this Calvin Coolidge quote to heart in persevering toward your success,

Nothing in this world can take the place of persistence. Talent will not: nothing is more common than unsuccessful men with talent. Genius will not; unrewarded genius is almost a proverb. Education will not: the world is full of educated derelicts. Persistence and determination alone are omnipotent.

This quote isn’t just for the ambitious crowd who wants to do big things. You also need persistence and determination to get to a place where you can only work 10 hours a week, or to find the perfect work-life balance and job that gives you what you want.

Believe that you have what it takes to lead the life you want, because you do. The human spirit is impossible to break when it’s committed.

Commit to your definition of success. And I’m positive your entire life will take shape how it’s supposed to.

Summing Up Success

To wrap this up, we’ve now answered the tough question, “What is success?”

As far as I’m concerned, success is clearly identifying what you want out of life and then going all out to reach that dream.

Don’t skip Step 1 and start hustling for something you don’t even want. (I’m talking to you Jenny, who took an engineering job to make your parents proud, when really you want to be an artist. And I’m calling you out Tom, who got your PhD for the prestige, not because you need it to do the work you love.)

And don’t get this process wrong by narrowing down what you want but not putting in the work to achieve it.

There are only two steps to live a successful life, promise yourself you’ll do them in order because then you’ll rejoice later on.

Let’s also stop being so harsh on other people who don’t have the same values as you. Each individual is different, so people should want different things out of their lives.

The world would be a terrible bore if everyone wanted to be a movie star or everyone wanted to be a stay at home parent.

Stay out of the negative, judgement lane and move over to the positive, encouragement lane. This will give you more energy to focus on what you want and initiating that reality for yourself.

The journey to get there is success in itself and the final destination becomes the icing on the cake!



10 Careers For People Who Love Helping Others




Know you’re someone who loves serving others and is naturally inclined to that kind of work? A career that allows you to live your passion is just what you need.

For a lot of people starting off in the working world or looking for a new career, financial rewards are not the number one thing they are looking for.

Instead, they want a job that provides a sense of personal satisfaction through the feeling of helping others. These jobs are out there.

You have a whole host of jobs that put you in direct contact with those in need, whether this is through healthcare, education, charity or another option.

And then there are the jobs that provide a broader contribution to society including science and engineering.

So, let’s go through a list of 10 potential options if you are looking for a job that prioritizes helping others.

1) Teaching and Education

Education is a broad field that gives you the opportunity to impart your skills and knowledge onto others, whether these are children or adults.

Beyond the traditional primary and secondary school paths, there are also opportunities to teach at further education colleges or else children with special needs.

To qualify as a teacher, you will need a degree and a further year of hands-on training, but there are also opportunities such as youth work, childcare or becoming a teaching assistant.

Essentially, the knowledge that you are having a direct impact on people’s lives and you are helping them to develop themselves is immensely rewarding.

2) Nursing and Healthcare

As well as being able to serve others, nursing is a field that is always looking for new staff members so there will be no shortage of job opportunities. Just take a look at to find out more.

Beyond the range of hospital jobs that you can choose from, you could also find yourself working in a GP surgery, adult care centres or people’s homes, to name a few.

The launch of the nursing degree apprenticeship has been designed to make the career easier for people to enter, but obtaining a degree is still required to progress in this field.

Otherwise, there are plenty of other careers in healthcare apart from being a nurse including physiotherapy, midwifery or pharmacy.

3) Medicine

Although it takes a great deal of hard work and commitment to enter this career path in the first place, there is no doubt that working in medicine is one of the most rewarding options out there.

After all, you are helping people with their most important commodity; life.

As well as becoming involved in the day-to-day treatment of patients, there is also the option to go into the research side of the field and help develop groundbreaking medicine.

And there are also a wide range of medical specialties to choose from so you can decide on one that perfectly suits your interests.

On the down side, this tends to be a very demanding option that requires a lot of dedication to the role which can often impact work-life balance.

4) Social Work

Social work is a career that brings you into direct contact with some of the most vulnerable people in society.

Some of the most common include elderly people, adults with mental health issues and people with learning difficulties.

You will probably be required to get involved in some very tough situations including child protection, adoption or working with offenders. To become a full social worker, you will need to obtain a degree, but there are other non-degree options that give you the opportunity to work in this field in other capacities.

Be in the know that many of these jobs come along with high levels of anxiety and the need to work in some very challenging situations.

5) Emergency Services

Comprising of the police, ambulance and fire and rescue, the emergency services are three different career paths.

They all have in common the responsibility to directly respond to people in their most urgent time of need. And these tend to be very community-oriented jobs, as well as ones in which the tasks vary greatly.

There are a wide range of different options and entry levels for each of the three sectors we have mentioned.

The downside is that the working hours tend to be unstable and you are also likely to find yourself working on call.

But there is also a great sense of satisfaction in knowing that you are making a genuine difference to society.

6) Charity Work

There are all kind of career paths that are directly linked to the charity sector from fundraising to marketing.

You may find yourself directly interacting with people or you may be in a more office-based role, but either way, you will have the knowledge that you are closely involved in helping others.

Jobs are open for both graduates and non-graduates, and there are also plenty of voluntary opportunities as well.

If you know that you are directly involved in a field that you are passionate about, this is a fantastic and motivating feeling that can give you immense job satisfaction. Keep in mind you may have to work your way up from the bottom to get there or come into the sector from a different career path entirely.

7) Law

You may not naturally associate a career in law with one which is helping people, but there are some options which give you the opportunity to give a voice to people without one.

For example, you could go down a career in criminal defence in which you support people who have been accused of crimes.

You could also become involved in the child protection side of law in which you help children in very vulnerable situations. Solicitors and barristers are the jobs that grab most of the headlines, but there are also plenty of entry-level positions that all you to work your way up.

Ultimately, you need to be selective about the type of job you are going for so that you have the feeling that you are helping people and making a genuine difference to their lives.

8) Science and Engineering

Though a lot of science and engineering careers are less about helping people on a daily basis, they are often involved in making the big societal changes that make all the difference in the long run.

For example, in a science career role, you could be involved in protecting the environment or developing new health treatments for people.

Plenty of engineering paths also lead to positive changes for people such as developing renewable energy sources.

Again, it is all about being selective with your career choice so you go for one that provides you with the maximum amount of job satisfaction and the feeling that you are really helping people.

9) Public Service

Though people who work in politics often have a bad reputation, many people do enter this particular career path because they want to help others.

The work that you are doing could impact the entirety of the country, even though whether you are in contact with them directly or not depends on what job role you go into.

So, if you are particularly passionate about the community you live in, a career in local government could be the ideal solution.

Alternatively, you could work in central government and choose between all the different major areas such as pensions, healthcare, education and justice. Job roles are varied so you could be coming in from a wide range of backgrounds.

But if you progress high up the career ladder, stress levels can rise accordingly as you are having to make the decisions that really impact people’s lives.

10) Psychology

Psychology still remains a rapidly developing field. And the increasing focus on mental health in society means that there are more options than ever before becoming available.

Some of the most common branches of psychology that people enter include health, clinical, counselling, educational and forensic.

Like other job roles we have talked about already, you have the reward of knowing that you are directly helping people who are struggling with a range of complex issues.

Final Words

The 10 career paths we have talked about are just some of the potential options you have if you are looking to get into a career that involves helping others.

While some require a great deal of training and study, others can be entered at any stage.

Essentially, you should think about where your passions lie before matching yourself up to one of these options.

It may be that you want to come into contact with people directly and feel like you are helping people in this way. It may be that you like the idea of contributing to wider societal changes that help people in the long-run.

Whatever the case, many people find that personal rewards and job satisfaction from one of these types of career outweigh the financial incentives of other paths.

Though if you work your way up, you still have an excellent opportunity to strike the perfect balance of finding a job that is rewarding in both senses of the word.

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High Risk Career Choices That Could Pay Off Big




Are you the type of person who enjoys adrenaline and high-risk, high-reward opportunities? You’ll probably fit perfectly in one of these risky career fields below.

Career choices are never easy. Whether you’re a high schooler, a college kid, a young professional, or a middle aged adult, it’s difficult but crucial you find the right job.

A large portion of your happiness and future depend on it.

While there’s advice all over about how to find the right career based on your personality, sometimes this can lead to overthinking and feeling paralyzed on what to do next.

It’s best to know yourself and trust your gut when it comes to making the right career choice.

Since every choice you make in life will come with its own risk that it may not pay off, sometimes the ones with the most risk are the ones worth risking everything for to be happy.

For the risk-takers out there who need to have a sense of fulfillment in their work, the following high risk jobs could be right up your alley.

Starting Your Own Business

If there’s one career move that a lot of us will want to make, but can often be afraid of, it’s starting a business from scratch.

Starting your own business will always be a risk. Even when you have the capital, a solid business plan, and a lot of experience in your field; you can never guarantee that it’s going to work out.

But if you’re willing to work hard and work at it, it’s a risk that can often pay off.

Becoming A Freelancer

Similarly, choosing to leave job security and go freelance can also be risky business (albeit less than starting your own business), but it’s often worth it.

The risk of going freelance is real and it will also depend on how well you are at adjusting to freelance life. Work won’t always be handed to you; you have to chase it. The investment you need to give here is both your heart and time.

By putting everything you’ve got into going freelance, you should see success.

Working In Another Country

When you do own your own business, or if you have a side project that you’re working on, there may be a time that you decide to go international. And there are always risks associated with this move.

When you’re moving into a market that you don’t know and that you have no experience in, there is a greater chance that you fail.

If you can do your research and plan your entry carefully, the potential successes will always be worth the risk.

Real Estate Investing

There’s always the option to turn to real estate investing.

If you’ve wanted to start a career for yourself that you can operate alongside your work, for the time being, property investment is a strong option.

Whether you look into buy to let options, BTO, or decide to start flipping properties, you have the potential to earn more money than you know what to do with on your own.

Many beginner investors need to first just build up capital, and then be willing to patiently wait until the property and price is right.

Becoming A Professor

When you’re starting out on your career path and still in college, or considering going back to study for your graduate degree, you may consider becoming a professor.

This is a risk for two reasons.

Firstly, the cost of getting your doctorate can’t be ignored. Debt and risk go hand in hand together.

And secondly, the idea that you’re missing out on being in the working world and getting paid a high salary for your skills.

Now if you make it through academia to become a professor and earn tenure, then your job security will be at an all-time high and career risk at an all-time low.

Becoming A Doctor

For those considering becoming a doctor, you may wonder if it is entirely worth it.

Medical education is long, challenging, and expensive.

So you have to be able to analyze the cost vs. the reward relationship when it comes to training to become a doctor.

If you’re skilled, passionate, and willing to work hard, you should be able to both out-work and out-earn your student debt before you know it.

Training As A Pilot

As far as adventurous careers go, if you want to enjoy job security and a good salary at the same time, you’re often limited with choice.

However, a strong option would be to train as a pilot.

Of course there are risks with any kind of job like this, but you should find that although the training is costly, the salary you receive in return will repay your investment, and your security will shatter any risk.

You’ll also gain the flexibility to fly commercial or private, which can’t be said in many careers.

Joining The Army

An army job does not need as much of an investment upfront in terms of experience or money, but it does require a few years of your life.

Although some positions will require a college education like an army officer, it’s not required across entry-level positions. Out of all the options on this list, this one may be the easiest to begin.

Keep in mind a career within the army may prove a risk to your life at times, but the security, skills training and experience may make it the best investment you could make.

Working For The Government

You may also want to consider joining the government.

Working for the federal government, although not a risk in itself (depending on your role) can be worth the investment in your education that you may need to make.

You will often benefit from great working rewards and enjoy a varied working day, especially if you decide to go into an intelligence field.

Mentoring Others

At some point in your career, you may also want to think about going into mentorship.

Mentoring is often a great way to give back to the industry and encourage bright talent for the future, although it can mean you have to give up your time with very little financial gain in return.

Often times mentors find that the personal rewards make any risk you take entirely worth it.

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5 Best Future Careers, And 5 That Will Disappear




If you’re going to look for a new career, why not consider the best future careers to make sure that job is going to be as profitable in 20 years as it is now?

There’s a whole bunch of careers that are set to disappear as organizations become more dependent on computers and automation to do the heavy legwork for them.

Some experts think that somewhere in the region of 47% of jobs might be lost over the coming decades. That’s absurd if you think about this for a minute!

If you’re looking for a career that will stay relevant, you’d have your head on straight if you considered picking a field from the five we’ve listed below—and avoiding the five industries listed below them.

Good Future Careers

1. Cyber Security

The world’s going to be even more reliant on internet systems than it is now. With the arrival of the “internet of things”, it’s going to be all around us, a part of everything we do.

This, naturally, will make the criminals of the world pay attention – and as such, as our reliance on these systems grows, so will the importance of staying one step ahead of the people looking to hack and causing mischief.

If you know how to keep these attacks at bay, you’ll be high in demand in the corporate or government sector.

2. Tech Development

Well now, the whole world isn’t going to become dependent on technology just by chance: there’s going to be people behind those systems, working hard to find the next great breakthrough and push the world forward.

It’s important to note that not all IT based jobs will be safe; the market for app development jobs, for example, is likely to wind down.

However, if you can train yourself in advanced technology systems and make sure you’re always at the cutting edge of what’s happening, you’ll find plenty of work.

3. Data Analyst

Data is already used to influence companies much more than you probably realize, but it’s set to become even bigger in the next decade and beyond.

There’s already more data than any company could need, but there’s a problem: there aren’t enough people who know how to interpret the data.

If you’ve got an eye for spotting trends and can make sense of large quantities of information, then look at becoming a data analyst. Computers won’t be able to make sense of it on their own (in the beginning at least): it’ll need the human touch.

4. Healthcare

And talking of a human touch; healthcare is another industry that will be kept safe from computers.

Of course, automation and AI will form a significant part of healthcare, but it’ll work in conjunction with health professionals, not replace them.

Don’t worry if you don’t like the thought of dealing with blood and other healthcare hazards; there are plenty of specialized jobs available that are just as safe.

If we take a look at the job prospects for a radiologist via, we can see that it’s a future proof career option; demand for this job, along with other physicians, is due to grow by 24% over the next few years.

Some jobs just can’t be performed by a machine, and healthcare is right at the top of the list.

5. Social Care

There’ll also be plenty of jobs in an industry that can be considered the cousin of healthcare, social care.

Again, there will be elements of technology incorporated into the industry, but it’ll be working alongside the core workers, rather than replacing them, as the very essence of this type of work depends on human interaction.

And this market won’t just be safe because computers can’t take over: it’s a growing industry in its own right.

In the not too distant future, people aged 70 and over are going to form the biggest age group in the country, and there’ll need more people than there currently are to take care of them.

Bad Future Careers

1. Number Crunching

If you’ve got a knack for mathematics and producing reports and paperwork, then look away now, because this is one surprising career that is likely to shrink in importance in the forthcoming years.

While it currently requires a high degree of expertise, a slew of applications that will more or less automate the entire process are already here, and there will be more on the way, too.

Though traditional companies still rely on human hands to take care of these jobs, modern companies are using machines to take care of their account, bookkeeping, tax returns, and so on, and it’ll be these companies who dominate the future.

2. Global Knowledge

The rapid globalization of the economy has meant it’s been a golden age for workers who were able to navigate different cultures and languages.

While we’re still a ways off from not needing tour guides with specialized, in-depth knowledge, the abundance of apps and other smartphone related tools will shrink this industry over time.

At a more immediate risk are translators, who will have to compete with software that automatically translates languages. The tech isn’t quite there yet, but it is coming, and from then it’ll only be the highly sensitive translations that are done by humans.

3. Non-Artistic Writing

Now, there’s little chance a computer will take the place of a novelist anytime soon. That’s just not going to happen because art is inherently human.

However, writing that isn’t obviously artistic, such as web content, technical reports, and (gasp) newspaper articles will increasingly be written by machines.

Some news outlets already use bots to write their weather reports, and it has been reported (by humans) that robots are more and more responsible for what we’re reading online and in our newspapers.

4. Logistics

The entire logistics industry is about to be turned upside down, as nearly all components can be performed by a robot. Machines will be responsible for the running of warehouses, packaging, and delivery, with little to no human hands helping them along the way.

For a glimpse into the future, look no further than Amazon’s delivery plans. Welcome to the future!

5. Broadcaster

According to studies, broadcasters score some of the lowest when it comes to job growth, stress, and work environment.

This makes sense since competition has to be high for these limited roles and job security is not going to be strong when a media company can quickly fill a broadcasting role with another talking head.

It’s also difficult to find that first broadcasting job as radio stations become syndicated and the Internet gobbles up more music and sports positions.

These are just a few of industries where humans will have more or less importance in the future. So if you’re looking for a change of career, make sure it’s one for the future!

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